i don't get it : \

I just don't get how can a person become so insensitive, subconciously selfish and considerably inconsiderate. Basic thing, if you know that you are apart of the outcome, then you move,do whatever you can do. I mean i don't think humans are too dumb to oversee the need to lend a hand or two for the sake of one's self. hahayz.

freedom or independence is a chance for us to prove our integrity, our choices define us, our decisions makes up perceptions of who we are and some lose these chances.

to be honest i am annoyed by people who doesn't really think of what other's could have possibly sacrificed. I know i can't compare one from the other since we are individuals and as individuals we are too different to be compared to one another but the thing is, if we use all our senses we need not be imposed,we are ourselves would realize what is in need, it is when prioritization comes.

i know life couldn't be fair by itself, but we can make it fair enough.

my weakness really is my being weak when it comes to imposing. Others may say its being safe, yes it might be the safe side but its the best thing to do. why?

1.) if you impose, everyone reacts with bias,not thinking why was it impose not seeing the long term benefits and closing their minds with it as a hindrance to whatever they wanted.

2.) if you impose, bargaining enters into the picture.

bargaining can be tricky, that you just want to avoid,why?

1.) when someone bargains,you listen
2.) when you listen,you try to weigh things
3.) if you allow for its validity, everyone else seek to bargain
4.) then again you listen
5.) when you listen, you try to weigh things
6.) if not really valid,then what? all the blurting out takes place!

i just so hate it. i'm tired.
i just dont get it why parents dont allow their young adults to work overtime when in fact they know the background, they sent their children to school so why won't parents understand for god sake.
i just don't get it why others can afford to relax as in relax while others are working because of urgency.
i just don't get it why others can be so insensitive! darn! i hate this.

i don't intend to put myself into pedistal, i admit i have failures, i accept and recognize what i am not whether positive or negative. It's just that we are too different, that it's who they are and this is who i am and this is about expanding ourselves in certain limits.